Horses are valuable companions in our lives, and we're very lucky to have them. But it's no fun to see your equine friends being bothered by flies. It’s a common challenge that can even hurt their health.
Horses have a rich, nuanced way of communicating that goes beyond vocal sounds. Their body language tells us everything we need to know about how they’re feeling - through their ears, tail, posture, and facial expressions. At Horseware, we understand how important the bond between horse and rider is. Whether you are bringing your new horse home or just want to understand your horse better, this guide to help you connect and establish a stronger bond between you and your equine friend.
Unlike humans, horses don’t rely on words to communicate. Instead, they express their emotions through physical cues that reveal whether they’re feeling calm, excited, anxious, or even unwell. As prey animals by origin, they have evolved to be highly attuned to their surroundings, and by observing their ears, tail, stance, and facial expressions, we can better understand their mood and intentions. Recognising these signs allows us to respond appropriately and build a trusting partnership.
Every movement a horse makes has meaning. From the flick of an ear to the swish of a tail, each action tells a story. Let’s break down the different body parts and what they reveal about a horse’s emotions and state of mind.
A horse’s eyes provide important clues about their emotions. Since horses have wide peripheral vision, their eye expressions can be subtle but significant.


The position and movement of a horse’s ears can reveal a lot about what they’re thinking and feeling.
A horse’s tail plays an essential role in communication and balance.


The way a horse moves its front legs can indicate different emotions and intentions.
The movement of the hind legs is especially important to watch, as it can indicate relaxation or a potential kick.
While body language is a horse’s primary form of communication, they also use different sounds to express themselves.
Foals clack their teeth as a sign of submission to older, more dominant horses.
This behaviour helps prevent aggression from other horses by signalling, "I am no threat!" It’s commonly seen in young foals meeting new herd members.
A horse stomping its front foot is usually trying to dislodge insects, but repeated stomping can indicate frustration, discomfort, or impatience.
Check out our Holistic Approach to fly control for tips and tricks. If this behaviour is frequent, check for hoof issues or environmental stressors.
Horses pin their ears back when they’re annoyed, uncomfortable, or preparing to move another horse away from a resource they desire control over.
Often accompanied by a head threat, baring teeth or tail swishing. Pinned ears is a clear warning sign and should not be punished or ignored.
A horse may nudge for attention, curiosity, or as a sign of affection. Horses learn to nudge their mother's udders to release milk when they are foals and may try this behaviour with people too, when hoping for a treat from a pocket. It is a good idea to train your horse to have good food manners to avoid any unwanted nosy behaviour.
While a horse nudging us is just communication and not them trying to dominate us, it is best to decide your boundaries and gently ask the horse to remain out of your space, ensuring to reward good behaviour.
Reading horse body language is key to strengthening your relationship with your horse. By paying attention to subtle movements, posture, and facial expressions, you can better understand their needs and emotions.
Horses are hard-wired to form social bonds through grooming. Instead of a pat on the neck, try a firm scratch instead. Follow the ‘3 second rule’: scratch for 3 seconds and then pause to see if your horse would like to move away, ask for more or suggest another scratching spot. By taking a moment to see how they respond you begin to develop a greater communication. Does your horse turn their head away when you first go to scratch them? Stop and rock back a step to show your horse that you understand they are asking politely for space. Sometimes it helps to try again by first showing your horse the brush for them to sniff.
Shedding season is the perfect time to find their favourite itchy spot - on the withers, shoulder, under neck, inner legs or inner ears.
If you would prefer that your horse doesn't try to groom you back, you can scratch when their head is away from you and stop scratching any time their muzzle gets too close.
By learning to interpret your horse’s body language cues, you’ll create a deeper connection with your horse. Browse our range of rugs and therapy products to ensure a comfortable, happy horse!


Megan Hines – Equine Training Instructor & Connection Training Coach
Megan Hines is an ABTC-registered Equine Training Instructor and certified Connection Training Coach based in Co. Roscommon, Ireland. She specialises in positive horsemanship, helping leisure horse owners and handlers of fearful equines build trust and connection through an equine-led, reward-based approach.
Originally from South Africa, Megan trained for 10 years under SANEF-certified instructors and competed in various equestrian disciplines, including dressage, show jumping, cross-country, vaulting, and gymkhana. With over 20 years of experience in positive reinforcement, she focuses on holistic horse care, liberty work, and cooperative handling for vets, farriers, and everyday situations.
Megan has worked extensively with rescued equines and trained Jenny the donkey for the acclaimed 2022 film The Banshees of Inisherin. Her work supports stronger, more joyful partnerships between people and their horses, ponies, mules, or donkeys.
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